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What’s Up with My Family?
Middle School Confidential™ Series
Annie Fox, M.Ed., and illustrated by Matt Kindt 
What’s Up with My Family?

“Jen disagrees with her parents on just about everything, especially dating. Jack feels like his sister is always getting away with stuff. Abby doesn’t know how to deal with constant ‘reminders’ about her weight. Mateo feels like his huge family is always in his business. Michelle wishes it were more than just her and her mom at home. And after a divorce, Chris is still getting used to life in a stepfamily.”

As Jen, Jack, Abby, Mateo, Michelle, and Chris realize, family relationships aren't always perfect. Fortunately, What’s Up with My Family? is here to help. Part graphic novel, part nonfiction advice, the third book in the Middle School Confidential series follows these six characters as they deal with tween and teen issues that can come up in any home.

Book 3 features insider information on a wide range of family matters, from sibling rivalry to divorce and other difficult transitions. Readers will find tips for building trust with adults at home and making family relationships stronger. There’s also expert advice on common middle school issues—like dealing with strong moods and making good decisions in heated situations. Here is some of what you'll find inside:

  • Advice for passing up on “fuel-ish thinking”—runaway thoughts that can escalate bad feelings at home
  • 6 tips for staying cool in hot-button situations
  • Ideas for getting on the same page with parents, siblings, and others at home
  • Advice for tough times—like divorce or the loss of a loved one
  • Suggestions for being responsible and earning more independence
  • And much more!

Filled with character narratives, quizzes, quotes from real kids, and resources, this is a family relationships book for every middle schooler who’s asked, “What’s up with my family?”

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Table of Contents
Introduction
“5 Tips for Getting More Responsibility” (Tips)
“Need to Know?” (Resources)
“Things Are Different Now...” (Quotes)
“How Flexible Are You?” (Quiz)

 
 

 

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Educators!

Not sure how to use the books in the Middle School Confidential series in your classroom, counseling, or after-school setting? Download A Leader’s Guide to the Middle School Confidential Series for discussion questions and activities you can use to promote discussion on important tween and teen topics.

Download A Leader’s Guide to the Middle School Confidential Series


Parents!

Check out “Family Confidential: Secrets to Successful Parenting,” a weekly podcast series from Middle School Confidential author Annie Fox. Listen in as Annie provides practical parenting advice through conversations with authors, educators, and therapists. Dynamic discussions help strengthen family connections with tips, insights, and practical tools for guiding your kids through middle school and beyond.

Learn more about “Family Confidential: Secrets to Successful Parenting” 


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96 pages, illustrated, softcover, full-color, 6" x 8", ages 11–14, ISBN 978-1-57542-333-3

F&P: Grade 6/Ages 11–14/Y
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Awards
  • Learning and Laughter Favorite Educational Product Award Winner
 
Reviews

“Packed with easy-to-read information on how to not only get through middle school, but how to thrive during these years.”—Callie Feyen, Sit a While blog

“The [Middle School Confidential series] books are fun to read and a must-have for tweens, teens, and their parents. Get them today and start raising confident, skillful kids.”—Dr. Lynne Kenney, The Family Coach

“Recommended resource.”—ParentLife

“We are getting our 5th graders ready for a new environment—middle school. . . . Students are taking skills they’ve learned from Middle School Confidential and utilizing them in their daily lives. . . . The students who have read the series have had a noticeably improved attitude about entering middle school. That shift in perspective is allowing kids not to dread but embrace their middle grade years. I encourage teachers, school librarians, and parents to get these on your bookshelves. They won’t be sitting idle for long.”—Books That Heal Kids Blog

[What’s Up with My Family?] incorporates a magazine-like design and beautiful graphic-novel-style illustrations. . . . Annie Fox delivers valuable, practical advice on family relationships with real-life examples that tug at the heartstrings. I highly recommend this book to children, families, and educators.” —Once Upon a Book

“Using a magazine-style format that is part graphic novel and part nonfiction advice, Fox helps teens work out family problems like sibling rivalry, blended families, over-protective parents, and dealing with loss. . . . This short, readable book will attract even reluctant readers with the format and give practical advice for all teens on improving family life.” —VOYA

“In a conversational text that includes page-length illustrated scenarios, bulleted tips, and sidebar-length sections of advice, Fox imparts solid information about family relationships. . . . The layouts, fonts, and background colors vary from page to page, adding to the book’s appeal.” —School Library Journal

“Annie Fox does a nice job of showing both sides of how both children and parents feel.”—Amy Barseghian, M.S.E., Parent Coach

“What makes this book so unique is that not just girls will want to read it! Boys will dig it, too.”—Special Needs Kids Examiner

“The third in the fantastic series of must-have middle school backpack stuffers . . . this [book] looks at how kids relate with their families.”
Reach and Teach

“Thank goodness for the Middle School Confidential series! A must-have for tween girls."—ParentingPink.com

“Smart and funny and real, these tips and tools will help tweens deal with real life issues. I wish I had this series when I was in middle school.”
Ericka Lutz, author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Friendship for Teens

“In her latest book, Annie Fox tackles the universal problem of conflict between tweens, teens, and parents. Families that use this book just might miss out on a lot of the relationship challenges that seem like a rite of passage.” —Tina Nocera, founder, Parental Wisdom

What’s Up with My Family? tackles real-life challenges, from daily drama with parents and siblings to life-changing issues like divorce or the loss of a parent. The book blends the best of ready-to-use strategies with stories from the Middle School Confidential cast of characters. Another brilliant addition to the series!” —Joe Bruzzese, author of A Parents’ Guide to the Middle School Years


 
In the Real World

“Well, it’s that time of year again. We are getting our 5th graders ready for a new environment—middle school. Just bringing up this topic can raise anxiety in the room. So wouldn’t it be nice to have a hip, relevant, contemporary book series to help students transition from elementary to middle school? Done and done! Series found. And how do I know Middle School Confidential is doing wonders for future middle schoolers? Since the moment I introduced the books, I’ve barely seen them since. A steady stream of 5th graders have been checking them out from my bookshelf.

“When asking kids how they like the series and how it’s helping them, I was delighted by their responses. Students are taking skills they’ve learned from Middle School Confidential and utilizing them in their daily lives. One student recommended I share with 5th graders an activity called ‘Who Are Your Real Friends?’ from Real Friends vs. the Other Kind because it helped her evaluate her own friendships. A book that decreases friendship drama? Love it.

“The students who have read the series have had a noticeably improved attitude about entering middle school. That shift in perspective is allowing kids not to dread but embrace their middle grade years. I encourage teachers, school librarians, and parents to get these on your bookshelves. They won’t be sitting idle for long.”—Roxanne, elementary school counselor, operator of Books That Heal Kids Blog



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What People Are Saying

“An amazing addition to any teen’s library, this book brings humor, tact, and insight to a difficult topic.” —Vanessa Van Petten, teen author of You’re Grounded! and creator of OnTeensToday.com